A few weeks ago I posted a blank timeline on the bulletin board in Deale Hall. It’s part of our first phase of interim work where we revisit our history and tell the story of this church. Although I also posted instructions, the big sheet of paper has remained empty except for my very questionable artwork. (Save the little goldfish, which makes me happy.) Over the next month, you are invited to add to the currently sparse timeline. Write a memory, attach a sticky note, tack up an old (or new) photo. It could be just your name and when you arrived. It could be the retelling of a favorite church story everyone should hear, such as newbies like me, printed out on a letter-size paper. This church has a story worth telling, and this is your chance.
For the couple dozen of folks who attended the startup workshop last month, they’re aware of how powerful it can be to remember and reflect on our history. That evening, a story of resilience, engagement, and passion emerged. You talked about accomplishments, proud moments, and amazing outreach to your community. Even as you talked through past challenges, you learned about the care with which you engaged conflict and the love you share for UU Rockford. Sometimes, you learned, difficult conversations could have been engaged more directly or quickly. Other times, you learned the power within your long-term relationships and your acceptance that ministers are human beings with unique personalities, strengths, and weaknesses. This is vital to strong, long-term ministries. One thing in particular stood out to me when someone expressed the idea: “We’re too strong to let conflict or challenge break us.” Indeed, you are!
And underneath every human person, institution, and endeavor is fragility and vulnerability. Our timeline is a place to explore all of your past: Where you’ve soared. Where you stumbled. Where you are rooted in particular strengths. Where there are patterns to notice as you envision a new relationship with a new minister, and a new chapter for yourselves.